Why the World Has It Wrong About Serving (And What God Says Instead)

In a world driven by status, self-preservation, and platform-chasing, the concept of serving others has become unpopular even suspicious. Society tells us to protect our time, demand reciprocity, and avoid anything that feels “beneath” us. But what if the path to purpose, healing, and promotion isn’t in self-centeredness but in service?

Jesus flipped the world’s logic upside down when He wrapped a towel around His waist and washed the feet of His disciples. The King of Kings chose the position of a servant not for applause, but for alignment with the will of the Father.

Point 1: The World’s View of Service

The world sees service as weakness. You’ll hear phrases like:

•“Don’t let people take advantage of you.”

•“Move in silence and only serve yourself.”

•“You can’t pour from an empty cup.”

While some of these statements hold truth when boundaries are involved, the spirit behind them often leads to pride, isolation, and a hardened heart. The world conditions us to believe we lose power when we serve. But Scripture teaches the opposite.

Point 2: God’s View of Service

God sees service as a form of worship. He designed us to serve Him, others, and the body of Christ. In fact, spiritual gifts weren’t given for self-glorification but for building up others.

•Serving teaches humility

•It grows your character

•It positions you for elevation

1 Peter 4:10 reminds us: “Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others…”

Your purpose is tied to your posture. If you want to go higher, start lower.

Point 3: Jesus Is the Ultimate Model

Jesus served consistently, humbly, and intentionally. He healed, taught, fed, and washed feet knowing full well He was the Son of God. He didn’t serve because He had to. He served because love compelled Him to. “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve…” – Mark 10:45

If Jesus wasn’t “too big” to serve, what excuse do we have?

Point 4: Serving Doesn’t Mean Being Used

Let’s clarify: service does not mean people-pleasing or burning out for acceptance. It means being led by the Spirit and obedient in your assignments. Serving God’s way doesn’t drain you it develops you.

Point 5: Your Promotion Is in the Pouring

God watches how we steward the unseen. Many are praying for elevation while ignoring opportunities to serve in the small things. But elevation in the Kingdom comes through humility and obedience. Luke 16:10 says: “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much…”

Faithfulness in the shadows often leads to favor in the spotlight.

Conclusion:

Serving is not a setback it’s a setup. It trains your heart, unlocks your purpose, and draws you closer to the example of Christ. The world may say “Serve no one but yourself,” but God says “Serve others, and you’ll find Me there.” It’s time to trade ego for obedience. And that starts with picking up a towel.